I'm looking at the shop manual for a 1999, but should be similar.
It's the same generation. The trailer lighting connector shows to be
in the left side of the trunk. The picture looks like it is up high,
just forward of the trunk lid gasket at the top of the trunk opening.

Dick

On 10 Jun 2004 09:52:14 -0700, miltimj@yahoo.com (miltimj) wrote:

>I recently bought a trailer wiring harness for my 2002 Accord EX/V6
>sedan, but I can't find any termination in the rear of the vehicle.
>The instructions don't specify for my vehicle model (even though it
>says it's for my vehicle) where the termination is. Do I have to get
>a T-connector? Where does it go? My guess is the main brake wiring
>in one of the taillights.
>
>This is the harness I got (#43105):
>https://www.accessconnect.com/trailerwiring.htm
>
>Thanks in advance...