I truly mean no offense, but you are a little hard to understand. Maybe
some more questions will help us understand your problem better:

This is an automatic or standard shift?
With bouncing, you mean like jerking? Like if someone hit you from
behind with another car?
When the car is finally moving, the engine speed is very high -- it is
making a lot of noise, but you are not going anywhere?

If it is an automatic, what sort of automatic transmission fluid do you
have in the car?
Hondas will not run right with non-honda approved fluid.
If non honda, you could have your dealer power flush the transmission
to see if that makes a difference.