Simple,
for the distributor cap the wires go like this:
looking at distributor cap from passenger side
Top Left = No. 1
Top Right = No. 3
Bottom Right = No. 4
Bottom Left = No. 2
and here is a picture to illustrate how the wires go from the spark plugs to distributor.
http://hondaswap.com/attachments/118...ring-order.gif