since when do women know about cars? im not passing judgement but... this is what i say ive owned many many hondas in my dayi say change your oil every 3000 miles religiouslyproper air filter changing i think 10000 milesi think transmission fluid change every 30000tune up every 25000 plugs wires rotor cap distributerfix anything that breaks IMMEDIATELY! (its a honda most likey nothing will)change your timing belt and waterpump at 100K milesscrew the rest of the bs its just a money game!