Thank you, ladies and gentlemen for the responses so far.

Interesting point there by Keith J saying snow tires and driving
carefully would serve me well in the lack of ABS. I never thought of
that. Lack of ABS is the only reason I want to *replace* my car (most
other annoyances can be fixed). Of course I didn't want to pay the
dealership extra $$$$ for trade-in so my wife mentioned searching
classifieds for a private party sale.

But I would happily keep my Honda if I were to get ABS in it. If snow
tires are near as safe, then by all means, I would start researching
today. (Of course there are some more amenities in the Camry so I was
thinking if I get the car for about $12,500 and sell mine for about
$9,000, then that is about 3.5 grand for ABS, sound system and a newer
model car. I have an appointment for this Saturday and I will decide
based on what it looks and feels like.)

So, snow tires would help me brake and even drive better in winter?
They may not be close to ABS and 4WD but would they have a significant
impact? I think they are definitely worth it because this is my only
vehicle and my wife drives it too. And I am always worried when she
is out driving in this winter with my 3 year old.

Best regards and stay warm.