I don't know if the connector you are looking for is in the exact same place as in this posting, but here is a link that should give you an idea of what you are looking for:
http://www.geocities.com/myintegra96/srs.htmlIf there really is a problem with the airbag, the light will probably come right back on. I would take it in and have it checked out just to be safe. There was an airbag related recall on the 2000 Accord, but I don't know if it would trigger the light.