the answer is kinda scary. you have to take it to the dealership and have the factory techs reset it for you if you dont have it. after that they should give you the code. DONT LOSE IT. actually, on my dads acura TL, the code was imprinted on the side of the glovebox in one of the numeric codes. you could try looking on the glovebox or passenger side door sill before you take it to the dealership though... hth ^_^ ..V..