I've been reading around the various forums, and found out that
Honda's Music Link is probably not a good choice for using the iPod in
the car.

Ideally, I'd like to get something that would allow the iPod to be
hidden away, and controlled through the stereo.

The Neo iOn comes closest, but is expensive and not completely
compatible.

So I'm now thinking of just having an auxiliary jack installed, and
using something like the DLO Transpod Direct (not the wireless FM
transmitter). There'd definitely be some tradeoffs, but it would be
quite a bit less expensive.

Any advice or suggestions?

Thanks!

--Nan